Getting an ex back can be a process more about changing yourself rather than fixing things in a relationship. So when you are on the way to figuring out how to get your ex back, ensure that you are willing to make that commitment to yourself to change for the sake of a relationship. The person willing to get back usually is more inclined towards making a change for better. So, when you are proposing for another chance to your ex, you will get a hint whether the other person too will be willing to help you out with the changes or not.
Do not make getting your ex back only your responsibility and see to it that you end up with a healthy relationship rather than frustration and disappointment. A well thought out plan and some time spent reflecting on the things that ended the relationship in the first place will be the wise thing to do. As the saying goes, well begun is half done so make sure that as you divulge your intentions to your ex, you are also able to build on foundation based on change. May you be blessed with a healthy getting back together!